{"id":3791,"date":"2023-07-16T14:13:32","date_gmt":"2023-07-16T14:13:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.fatmadefneilgaz.com.tr\/kitaphane\/?p=3791"},"modified":"2023-07-16T14:43:37","modified_gmt":"2023-07-16T14:43:37","slug":"kadinlar-dunyasi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.fatmadefneilgaz.com.tr\/kitaphane\/kadinlar-dunyasi\/","title":{"rendered":"KADINLAR D\u00dcNYASI"},"content":{"rendered":"

KADINLAR D\u00dcNYASI<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

Annem Afet Ilgaz, \u00e7ok k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck ya\u015flar\u0131mdan beri hayat\u0131 her anlamda benimle payla\u015ft\u0131. Yazd\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 bana muhakkak okutur, sadece yazd\u0131klar\u0131 hakk\u0131nda de\u011fil her hususta fikrimi al\u0131r, zaman zaman beni kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131na oturtup \u00f6n\u00fcne daktiloyu \u00e7ekerek, \u201canlat\u201d derdi. Konu bazen m\u00fczik, bazen tasavvuf, bazen politika olabilirdi. A\u015fk bile olurdu. K\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcc\u00fckt\u00fcm ama a\u015fk hakk\u0131nda bile ahkam kesebiliyordum. Daha da ilginci, annemin bu bilgi\u00e7liklere de\u011fer vermekle kalmay\u0131p, s\u00f6zlerime eserlerinde yer vermesiydi.<\/span><\/p>\n

Birka\u00e7 kez onun Milli Gazete\u2019deki k\u00f6\u015fesini yazm\u0131\u015ft\u0131m. Anlataca\u011f\u0131na sen yaz demi\u015fti. S\u0131k s\u0131k bana gelir (yan yana oturuyorduk) \u201cbug\u00fcn ne yazaca\u011f\u0131m, hi\u00e7bir \u015fey gelmiyor akl\u0131ma\u201d diye k\u0131vran\u0131rd\u0131. Muhakkak onun bu krizini \u00e7\u00f6zerdik. Konu\u015fa konu\u015fa tart\u0131\u015fa tart\u0131\u015fa.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u201c\u015eu \u00e7\u0131lg\u0131n T\u00fcrkler\u201d konulu bir yaz\u0131 yazm\u0131\u015ft\u0131m ona bir keresinde. T\u00fcrklerin tasavvufla tan\u0131\u015fmas\u0131n\u0131 yorumlam\u0131\u015ft\u0131m.<\/span><\/p>\n

Birka\u00e7 y\u0131l sonra b\u00f6yle bir ba\u015fl\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir kitab\u0131n kapa\u011f\u0131nda g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcmde nas\u0131l da \u015fa\u015f\u0131rm\u0131\u015ft\u0131m! Akl\u0131n yolu birdi, T\u00fcrkler \u00e7\u0131lg\u0131nd\u0131, o y\u00fczden b\u00f6yle tesad\u00fcfler olabilirdi.<\/span><\/p>\n

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\u015eimdi bunlar\u0131 niye anlatt\u0131m? Annem bir ara feminist olmu\u015ftu. Bunda benim hi\u00e7 etkim olmam\u0131\u015ft\u0131 \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc on iki ya\u015f\u0131nda faland\u0131m. O y\u0131llarda yazd\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u201c\u00d6l\u00fc Bir Kad\u0131n Yazar\u201d<\/strong> adl\u0131 eseri annemin bayrak a\u00e7\u0131\u015f\u0131 gibiydi. Diyorlar ya hani, Afet Ilgaz bir aray\u0131\u015f insan\u0131yd\u0131, diye, hah tam da \u00f6yle i\u015fte.<\/span><\/p>\n

(O kitab\u0131 okursan\u0131z, bir\u00e7ok \u00f6yk\u00fcde benim ad\u0131mla san\u0131mla yer ald\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131 g\u00f6receksiniz.)<\/span><\/p>\n

Valerie Taylor\u2019un Kad\u0131nlar D\u00fcnyas\u0131<\/strong> adl\u0131 eseri, k\u00fct\u00fcphanemin, annemden, annemin \u00f6zellikle bu s\u00fcrecinden yadig\u00e2r par\u00e7alar\u0131ndan.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Daha ben 13-14 ya\u015f\u0131ndayken annem bana Marilyn French\u2019in Kad\u0131nlara Mahsus<\/strong> adl\u0131 eserini vermi\u015fti. O kadar be\u011fenmi\u015ftim ki defalarca okumu\u015ftum. \u00c7ok sevdi\u011fim kitaplar\u0131 payla\u015fmak isterim, oku diye neredeyse zorla veririm, genelde geri gelmez.<\/span><\/p>\n

Kad\u0131nlara Mahsus\u2019ta \u201cVal\u201d diye bir karakter vard\u0131. Kitab\u0131 okurken acaba o Val, bu kitab\u0131n yazar\u0131 Valerie mi diye d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmedim de\u011fil.<\/span><\/p>\n

Asl\u0131nda annemin \u201chafiye okur\u201d diye isim takt\u0131\u011f\u0131 okurlardan de\u011filimdir. \u201cEfenim, burada anlat\u0131lan ki\u015fi siz misinizdir\u201d falan gibi sorular\u0131n pe\u015fine d\u00fc\u015fmem.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ama iki ayr\u0131 eserin ayn\u0131 kozmosun \u00fcr\u00fcn\u00fc olmas\u0131 da ilgimi \u00e7ekti do\u011frusu.<\/span><\/p>\n

Kad\u0131nlara Mahsus\u2019ta bir kad\u0131n\u0131n ba\u011f\u0131ms\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in verdi\u011fi m\u00fccadeleyi okuruz.<\/span><\/p>\n

Kad\u0131nlar D\u00fcnyas\u0131\u2019nda bir kad\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6zg\u00fcrle\u015fmesini.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Her ne kadar Frances kimlik aray\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131 cinsel deneyimleri yoluyla yapsa da o tutucu ve bask\u0131c\u0131 d\u00f6nemin ikliminde bu normal geliyor.<\/span><\/p>\n

Arka kapa\u011f\u0131ndaki \u201ccezbedici\u201d olmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan tan\u0131t\u0131m laflar\u0131na tak\u0131lmay\u0131n siz. O d\u00f6nem bu t\u00fcr i\u00e7 g\u0131c\u0131klay\u0131c\u0131 ifadelere s\u0131k ba\u015fvuruluyormu\u015f.<\/span><\/p>\n

D\u00fcnya gittik\u00e7e muhafazakarla\u015f\u0131yor mu, \u00f6zg\u00fcrle\u015fiyor mu ayr\u0131 bir tart\u0131\u015fma konusu ama cinsel e\u011filimlerin, deneyimlerdeki \u00e7e\u015fitlili\u011fin k\u0131nanmas\u0131, ele al\u0131n\u0131\u015f bi\u00e7imleri, kesinlikle de\u011fi\u015fti. Tabu diye bir \u015fey yok art\u0131k. Her \u015fey hem sanatta hem ekranlarda hem g\u00fcncelimizde ele al\u0131nabilir oldu.<\/span><\/p>\n

O y\u00fczden o zamanlar i\u00e7in \u00e7ok \u00e7\u0131lg\u0131n, kesinlikle devrimci olan bu eser \u015fimdi nostaljik bir etki uyand\u0131rmaktan \u00f6te gitmiyor.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ben biraz ara\u015ft\u0131rd\u0131m, ikinci el kitap satan internet sitelerinin \u00e7o\u011funda bu kitap var. Feminist edebiyatla herhangi bir sebepten \u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fc ilgileniyorsan\u0131z, s\u00fcreci anlamak i\u00e7in katk\u0131s\u0131 olacak, mutlaka okuman\u0131z gereken bir kitap.<\/span><\/p>\n

Elbette, Kad\u0131nlara Mahsus ve \u00d6l\u00fc Bir Kad\u0131n Yazar\u2019\u0131 da unutmayal\u0131m!<\/span><\/p>\n

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KADINLAR D\u00dcNYASI Annem Afet Ilgaz, \u00e7ok k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck ya\u015flar\u0131mdan beri hayat\u0131 her anlamda benimle payla\u015ft\u0131. Yazd\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131…<\/p>\n

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